Wednesday, October 05, 2005

What do women want?

The following questionaire was submitted at: http://virileplex.com/forher.htm

1. What is the most important quality your man should possess?
Honesty, Respect, Sense of Humor.

2. What initially attracted you to your mate?
I wasn't initially attracted to my mate because of his looks (that is not to say that I am not physically attracted to him, because I am). But the feature he has that created a "spark" for me, was his innately caring, thoughtful, and compassionate personality. He genuinely cares about the people in his life, and it shows in everything he does.

3. What makes you happy in a man?
I am happiest when my man puts my feelings/interests first--not in front of his necessarily (well not at all times), but my feelings above other peoples. It is important to me that my feelings and concerns are validated and respected by my partner.

4. What will you not tolerate?
Disrespect and keeping secrets/lies are definitely first on the list. Also, one thing my mate and I constantly fight about is his NEED for someone to always be "Right" and the other person is "Wrong." Saying "sorry, your right and I am wrong" is nice at times, but hearing it too much becomes counterproductive. It loses it's effectiveness at times when it is actually needed. I would rather neither of us had to say "You're right/wrong" but rather realize that things didn't work out right for a problem, and we'll learn from it. I always say, "Don't apologize, just do better the next time." As well as feeling controlled--I am my own person!!

5. What is your biggest turn-on?
Seeing my honey with the other important people in our lives, reminds me of the things I love about him: his laugh, his sense of humor, and his respect and compassion for others. These are the best, everyday turn-on's for me. Privately, a passionate kiss is the best turn-on.

Monday, July 18, 2005

What women want

The following questionaire was submitted at: http://virileplex.com/forher.htm

1. What is the most important quality your man should possess?
I couldn't agree more with this. Honesty means the world to me. Sometimes I can be a little extreme with it, however it was said best above, lying and disrespect go hand in hand.
2. What initially attracted you to your mate?
Her free loving attitude and her independence.
3. What makes you happy in a man?
I feel the main thing is honesty and attention.
4. What will you not tolerate?
Liars for sure. Other then that I don't like unemployed women, or busy bodies that are too busy with everything else. I mean why even try to have a relationship with someone that is never going to have time to enjoy it with you?
5. What is your biggest turn-on?
Soft whispering in my ear, or skirts lol.. yea that will do it. :)
6. What other questions would you like to add to this list?
Women should learn that they do not have to mask themselves to be beautiful. I personally do not like "painted up" women. Natural beauty usually does it for the right kind of men. The guys that like these fake women are nothing but fakes themselves. So pretty much keep it as real as you can and I'm sure your mate will do the same.

Sunday, June 05, 2005

How open should families be when it comes to sex?

All families differ when it comes to the topic and discussion of sex. Openness about the topic can benefit parent-child relationships more then most know. As a parent I appreciate the fact that my children feel able to come to me with questions freely pertaining to the "forbidden topic" in other families. There are no barriers, and gives me a safer feeling about what my kids are doing. I know what my kids have learned about sex. This helps me to advise them in the best way possible.

Saturday, June 04, 2005

What do women want?

On a recent post a lady asked, "What's the best way to make a man feel needed?" For me, just simply telling me that you need me goes a long way.